father but it dosent seem like it most of the time... any help on how to help him help me and show him its not as easy as he thinks? he says all i do is watch our two kids and clean... (like thats not alot) and he works all day... he shouldnt have to do anything...My boyfriend dosent like to change diapers, make bottles, or carry my son when hes crying. he is my sons?
ahaha... I'd be booting his *** out. sounds like he needs to grow up a little bit. kick his butt into motion.My boyfriend dosent like to change diapers, make bottles, or carry my son when hes crying. he is my sons?
Explain to him that you don't think changing diapers is fun either. Does anyone really think changing diapers is fun?
Maybe on a day when he has a day off from work, plan something to do with your friends. Leave the kids with him all day, and he'll quickly see that being a mom is a job too! =]My boyfriend dosent like to change diapers, make bottles, or carry my son when hes crying. he is my sons?
Woah you need to put a stop to that. You are equals and should be treated as such.My boyfriend dosent like to change diapers, make bottles, or carry my son when hes crying. he is my sons?
Well, men do not have the mother gene in them. Its very hard for them to do things like that. They are programmed to work and enjoy single life as well as other things. I would sit down and talk to him and help him. Show him how to do them if he does not know. Teach him how to do it. Communicate with him. Two kids and cleaning is a lot of work. It really is. Maybe have him help on weekends more then on weekdays if he works on the weekdays. He might just be tired and it might seem like a stress and overwhelming and your job to take care of the kids. Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. Communication is the kid to a lot of things.
