I have 2 autstic children 7 and 6 my boy has decided he don't like his diaper changed anymore. We are trying to teach him to use the potty but he hasn't got it yet. He don't talk so he can't tell us when he has to go. It has gotten to the point that it takes 2 people to change him. We don't always have 2 people to change 1 diaper. I also have an 11 year old boy.How do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
Have you tried a social type picture story, with him? I had a horrible time getting my autistic son potty trained I htought it would never happen. Then we got introduced to picture/social stories, and after a month or so he started slowy but surely. I understand how you must feel. I wish you the bestHow do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
I used to be a therapist for children with autism. WIth a 3 yr old, we sat him on the toilet for 8 hours in one day. Gave him lots fluid and salty food, so that he would go on the toilet. He finally got the idea that's what a toilet is for. Also, an 8 year old i worked with, started having a lot of accidents. We had scheduled potty times, every 30 min. take him to the toilet, and then start going for longer periods of time. He needs to learn to know what the urge feels like to use the toilet so that he will learn to go on his own, and not necessarily have to tell you when he has to go. Every child is different, especially every autistic child. Speaking to a proffessional will help generate some different ideas. I worked for a company called Wisconsin Early Autism Project. They did in-home therapy with the children, there probably is some sort of company like that where you are that you can get some ideas from. Social stories work good too, especially if you read that to him before you take him to the potty. Lots of positive reinforcement!!!! Praise him when he uses the toilet, if he has an accident take him directly to the toilet and simply state %26quot;we go pee pee on the potty%26quot; Also, get rid of the diaper completly, this will only confuse him, do i go in the diaper or on the toilet? I know it's tough, but you have to be very consistent and have a routine. Good Luck!How do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
just try to have your husband change you six year son diaper i know he is auststic but just ask some like a family member or have a nanny change you son diaper. do not potty train you ***** son just keep him in diapers
good luckHow do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
The following are the most common symptoms of autism. However, each child may experience symptoms differently:
Does not socially interact well with others, including parents
shows a lack of interest in, or rejection of physical contact. Parents describe autistic infants as %26quot;unaffectionate.%26quot; Autistic infants and children are not comforted by physical contact.
avoids making eye contact with others, including parents
fails to develop friends or interact with other children
Does not communicate well with others
is delayed or does not develop language
once language is developed, does not use language to communicate with others
has echolalia (repeats words or phrases repeatedly, like an echo)
Demonstrates repetitive behaviors
has repetitive motor movements (such as rocking and hand or finger flapping)
Is preoccupied, usually with lights, moving objects or parts of objects
Does not like noise
Has rituals
Requires routines
Assessing Your Child's Readiness
Before beginning any training, assess your child’s readiness by asking the following questions:
Does the child have awareness of, and control over, his/her own body?
Children with autism may not have awareness of or control of his/hers body. Scheduled toileting may be needed and diapering at night may need to be used.
Is the child socially motivated to be trained? (Is s/he pleased by the thought of being a %26quot;big boy%26quot; or %26quot;big girl%26quot;, or of wearing big kid's underwear?
Frequently children with autism are not motivated by these occurrences.
Is your child able to speak and/or understand the language used in the process?
Sometimes a child with a disability may not understand the explanations or process involved.
Is your child able to sequence and organize information and attend to relevant stimuli or information?
Many children with autism have difficulty following steps, keeping their focus on the relevant information, or have difficulty with awareness of bodily sensations.
Is your child agreeable to changes in routine?
Some children may balk at changes due to toilet training, such as wearing underwear when they had been wearing diapers. They may also have difficulty switching their focus from the activity they were engaged in before the potty session.
Is your child able to integrate sensory information, such as establishing a relationship between bodily sensations and the need for toileting functions?
Many children with disabilities, especially autism, are not aware of the cues that signal a need to visit the bathroom. Also, some children are overwhelmed by the sensory stimuli in a bathroom, from the sound of rushing water, to the sight of the huge hole in the toilet, to the tactile senses in taking their clothes off and on.
If you were able to answer %26quot;YES%26quot; to the previous questions, your child may be ready for toilet training!
If, however, you answered %26quot;NO%26quot; to many of the questions, your child may need more structure and visual cues to help him or her succeed at toilet training. Following the steps outlined below may help the child with autism and other disabilities reach the goal!
Follow these important steps to help guide you in the toilet training process:
1. Define a reasonable goal for your child.
Your child may need many smaller steps before reaching the final goal.
2. Observe and assess your child’s understanding of the toileting routine.
Consider your child's disability and look at the task from your child's point of view.
3. Establish meaningful routines and collect “data” about your child’s readiness for toilet training. Ask yourself the following questions: Does my child remain dry for long periods of time? According to the data, does he or she have a regular schedule for wetting or soiling? Is the child aware that he or she is wet or soiled? Are there signals or clues that the child is about to, or is engaged in, wetting or soiling?
If you answered “no” for all of these statements, your child may not be ready for toilet training; however, you may be able to work on bathroom routines in the meantime.
You may need to teach the child how to dress and undress him/herself.
You may need to work on allowing the child to get used to the noises and sight of flushing.
You might consider working on consistent routines for your child, and expanding his or her attention span long enough to complete a bathroom sequence.
It may also be necessary to assess you child’s ability to complete each step of the toileting sequence.
Then proceed to teach one step at a time, using a task analysis sequence, such as entering the bathroom, pulling pants down, pulling training pants down or diaper off, sitting on the toilet/ getting toilet tissue, using toilet tissue, throwing tissue into toilet, standing up, pulling clothes up, flushing toilet, washing hands, drying hands, leaving bathroom, returning to the play area.
Specific Toilet Training Tips and Methods:
Many teachers and parents of autistic children have found it helpful to incorporate physical and visual structure to the process. Using a concrete or abstract transition object allows some children to make the transition easier, such as carrying an empty baby wipe box or a picture of a toilet on a card. Making the bathroom and toilet area secure by providing stepstools, rails, and opening reducers have helped many children. A visual sequence of the process using picture cues is often helpful for those with sequencing and attention problems, including what happens when the child finishes the process (to provide closure, as task completion is a powerful motivator for some children with autism).
The %26quot;DRY PANTS %26quot; METHOD:
Another popular method is to teach children the difference between wet and dry sensations, and to deliver reinforcement contingent upon having dry pants.
For this method, it is important to not use diapers or Pull-Ups on the children, so they can actually begin to feel the difference between wet and dry. Instead, use cloth training pants with rubber pants over them.
Complete a dry pants check every 1/2 hour to 1 hour, using a timer. Ask the child, “Are your pants wet or dry?” If they are dry, reward the child. If they are wet, give only a neutral expression. If the child answers incorrectly, guide the child’s hands to his or her pants and say, “They are (complete the correct word) wet/dry”.
Use a sticker chart to reinforce the child for urinating and having bowel movements in the toilet.
Make the learning experience one of fun and excitement, by offering books, a stool, music, and other comforting items.
Adding Structure to the Child's Environment
Many teachers and parents of autistic children have found it helpful to incorporate physical and visual structure to the process. Using a concrete or abstract transition object allows some children to make the transition easier, such as carrying an empty baby wipe box or a picture of a toilet on a card. Making the bathroom and toilet area secure by providing stepstools, rails, and opening reducers have helped many children. A visual sequence of the process using picture cues is often helpful for those with sequencing and attention problems, including what happens when the child finishes the process (to provide closure, as task completion is a powerful motivator for some children with autism).
MORE TOILET TRAINING TIPS:
Use a problem solving process when you are troubleshooting problem areas.
-Remember to think about the process from the child’s perspective.
-Consider how you can manipulate the environment to simplify or clarify the process for your child.
Internet References:
Boswell, S. and Gray, D. TEACCH Preschool and Center
E-mail: Susan_Boswell@med.unc.edu
Hoverstott-Cockrell, K. e-mail: cockrell@softhome.net
www.KidsHealth.org
National Network for Child Care
www.aacap.org
Prepared by Dianne Peters, M.Ed.
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A very close friend of mine has an autistic child.
However at the age of 5 years old he is in school, and both he and his parents are learning sign language so that they are able to communicate with their child.
He is 5 years old and NOT in diapers, although at times needs a pull up at night.
I havent been able to find anything on the net about the problem you are facing, although thats not to say it doesnt exist.
YOu need to talk more with your child Pediatrician, or Dr that deals with Autism in Children to better help you care for him.How do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
I would suggest adult diapers (like Depends.) He can pull them up and on himself. Tell him he is now able to use underwear like his 10 year old brother. Good luck.
JujubHow do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
Wow you have it pretty rough. I can't imagine having two autistic children, I only have one. I can only think of one thing that may or may not help. Is the problem positional? Would he let you clean him up sitting on the potty? Awkward I know. Maybe he will get the idea that poop goes there. It took me quite away to potty train my daughter, she doesn't poo all over the floor anymore!!
If you ever need a sympathetic ear please feel free to e-mail me.How do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
If you child has something that he likes, use it as a reward system for his cooperation with the diaper change. Be sure and keep your voice tone soft, and act patient even if you are feeling frustrated. Yes counselors are a good idea too. There are many professionals that have dealt with autistic children for Years that would be very helpful. Wish you the best.How do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
this really is close to home. my TWO teenage half brothers are autistic and in diapers. there is no easy way to change the diapers of a child of that age. it is hard for them to communicate and for us to understand. do you have discipline for him? check for rashes, maybe the wiping has chapped his behind, he may not be done, he is trying to tell you something, so explore it. my dad went through the same things with my brothers, it took time, but they finally figured it out, their behinds hurt from all of the wiping. you may need to get professional help on the potty training. my dad chose not to go that route, and will never know if it would have helped or not. Good Luck!!How do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
All I can say is . . . . God bless you.How do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
If you are in the process of potty training him anyway... why not try to get him to help with the cleaning up ? He'll need to learn how to wipe anyway and maybe having a sense of control of the situation will help keep him calm.How do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
I can understand your frustration, believe me. My best suggestion is to find a councelor whom deals with autistic children/adults.How do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
Wow.
I honestly do not know what to respond except to find someone who is a professional and deals with Autistic children.
Good luck.How do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
Hire a nurse or consult his doctorHow do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
Does he like music, or do you have a pet? Change him when he is calmed by something soothing such as the music or pet.
Find something that he does find comfort in and let him hold it, cuddle it.
Hope that helps!
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The very same way you would when changing diapers on a baby.How do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
****... i cant imagine wat ur going through..How do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
Maybe some sort of reward - like some musical toy he can only hold if he is sitting on the potty...and an extra reward for actually going. Keep a cardboard picture of the toy around, so that when he has to go he can point to the picture to let you know.How do i deal with changing a diaper of a 6 year old autstic boy?
Maybe you need to hire a nurse to help you out if you can. The state has programs set up to help you. Just go or call your local DSS office and they can hook you up witht he right people. Good Luck and God Bless you!
