ok, so my husband has a diaper fetish. It doesnt bother me as long as he doesnt force me into them. I love him. I have a 2 month old son now with him and he refuses to change any diapers. he finally told me why today. He apparently had read true stories of dads loosing their diaper fetish cause they get tired of changing their kids diapers and he is afraid the same will happen to him. He %26quot;likes wearing diapers%26quot; and he %26quot;doesnt want to loose his fetish%26quot;. How can I get him to help out! how can he expect me to get an evening job when he refuses to change our son's diapers? having another child is really discouraging.
p.s. besides the whole diaper thing he is an AWESOME father!How can I get my husband to change diapers, when he cares more about his fetish?
That's %26quot;losing%26quot; and %26quot;lose%26quot; and tell him you can't get a job in the evening unless he's willing to hire a babysitter to care for the child since he's not willing to change a few diapers.
It's rather disturbing his fetish means more to him than his child's well being...he'd let the kid sit in his own poop and pee so he doesn't lose his own diaper fetish? The dude needs therapy and is NOT a good father if that's how he truly feels. He's selfish.How can I get my husband to change diapers, when he cares more about his fetish?
That is just weird.
As parents you often have to sacrifice a great deal. The fetish isn't his life and really, if he lost it, it wouldn't kill him because his love of diapers would be killed. It's not like he would still yearn anymore. He needs to grow up and realize he's a daddy now. Not a baby.
P.s. perhaps try washable/reusable cloth diapers when he's watching the kid? Tell him if that's the alternative he wants to use that he has to launder the dirty nappy's though. At least you won't have to worry about coming home to a red bottomed baby!How can I get my husband to change diapers, when he cares more about his fetish?
yall need helpHow can I get my husband to change diapers, when he cares more about his fetish?
Well, he should have thought of that before you had the baby. This is reality, the baby's here, the diapers need to be changed and he's up.
Anyway, that just sounds like another male excuse for not changing diapers. There are millions of them.How can I get my husband to change diapers, when he cares more about his fetish?
I would just tell him that he's the man and father of the house. You gotta step up and be a man. You can't focus on yourself when you have a family. The BABY (who needs diapers) comes first and all else (sex) comes second. Are you going to let your baby sit there when you could help them out? No...you have to step up and be a man.
Explain why your family needs this from him...so you can get the extra income.
If he's in awesome father in every other way then thank him for all he does and explain you're appricative for all he does.
Good luck!How can I get my husband to change diapers, when he cares more about his fetish?
there are somethings best left unsaid.. this is one i wish i never heard.. a new low for YA.
AWESOME father? how can you look him in the eye?How can I get my husband to change diapers, when he cares more about his fetish?
I agree with lovely849.How can I get my husband to change diapers, when he cares more about his fetish?
Leave him alone with the kid for a few hours. Turn off your cell phone. Drive around. Treat yourself. Show up back home several hours later. If your kid's sitting in a dirty diaper, divorce him.How can I get my husband to change diapers, when he cares more about his fetish?
Tell him to grow the heck up and see a psychiatrist
